According to what I see in main, she’s been up half the night and decided to quit. There was a whole wall of text of complaints. I seriously think that a lot of her stress is due to her not being used to working, not knowing the job itself because no past experience and being a homebody for years. It’s been convenient! But these are things everyone deals with at a new job, you can’t just give up the first moment that things start getting stressful.
Besides, I’m sure that nobody is expecting miracles and she needs to stand up for herself and talk to her supervisor about the workload. Honestly, I feel like she’s behaving like a kid. Of course not working is better and easier when someone else is footing the bill. God! So ridiculous. She needs to grow the hell up and/or take charge of her life and stop sucking K dry. I’m frustrated with this.
“Hey, at least I made enough money to spay the cat…. if I get paid..” Really? Keep your shitty fucking money. What a dumbass. Boohoo, it’s too hard, I’ve been working a week… I didn’t think to sign a contract or ask for one. Jesus fucking Christ. And this is the person K chooses to continue to support financially. Of course she’s not gonna be in a hurry. She does stupid things, behaves like a child and then has the safety net of the person she no longer lives with, sees, is in a relationship with (technically) paying for her way of life. Ridiculous!
What a fucking day. Silence, followed by arguing, followed by me nearly setting an ultimatum: me or her, followed by him passing out tired. Talked to N about it (he noticed I was upset) and he agrees; their situation is absurd. But I shouldn’t have to do the ultimatum thing nor do I want to, he should be able to discern himself what situation he’s in, what he’s doing and what’s happening.
-Being not-poly as stated himself, but being in a poly relationship with a person deemed to be his partner but whom he considers a best friend and nothing else? Plus the financial support thing? Absolutely ridiculous. I totally get why you have a problem with it, I would too. N’s words.
I don’t know what to do. I need someone else to point out to him that he’s being stupid and hurtful so he’ll get it and do something about it because my words and opinions seem to do nothing but frustrate and annoy him.